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Grant prefers addressing a real issue within roughly a day or two rather than letting frustration build for weeks. Do not start a confrontation in the heat of the moment, but do not silently keep score either. A calm conversation about the specific behavior, the agreement you made and what needs to change is usually much easier than resolving months of accumulated resentment.
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